Friday, August 19, 2005

Think......

"When you're stil in love, she'll not complaint about your low income and lower standard of living. She still tell you its love that bring both of you together. She'll convinced you that, she love you, not your money and that's why she's with you. Until you get married. Thing still the same. Few years later, she gave birth. Thing still go as perfect as it is. Another few years, here comes your second child. THEN... she start to tell you thing."

Wife : "Look, the wife next door is driving Gen2, so happy"

Husband : "You know we cant afford a Gen2"

Wife : "Ya, I'm only telling you."

"Since then, she keep only "telling" you things. And you'll work hard to earn more money. You'll work even harder to make her happy and get all what she "tell". You sacrifies all your time to work. Finally, you manage to get her a Gen2. She's happy with that. Finally, you manage to earn more money and give to her to spend. You still work hard all day long. No time for your kids, no time for your family."

"With car and money, she start to go hanging around. It really depends on luck on who we meet. If you meet with good people, you'll turn out good. Unfortunately, she met with some bad guy."

Guy : "Why stay at home everyday? come out and have fun! lets go pub / karaoke!"

Wife : "But I dont have so much money"

Guy : "Come on! who need to pay money~? Let's ask some male out and he'll pay the bill!"

Wife : "OK!"

"Whether you are back or at home, she never care anymore. You wish to put it a stop there, but you realised, you have two kids. Its about responsibility. You want to earn money in the clean way to feed your family, you want them to have a better life. You sacrifies ALL your time to double/tripple your earning. But, it turns out to be not what you want."

"Think carefully. Is what you doing worth it?"

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This were the "story" told by the taxi driver. Yesterday , I went back at home around 2+ A.M. Have a chat with the driver. He seem to be a nice guy. Religious guy.. I don't know, but I guess he is a good guy. According to him, this is "experience" and not "story". Although the air-cond in his car is quite noisy. But I guess I heard the tear dropping sound in his heart.....

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